My night last night was… interesting. I got called a bitch for the first time in my life. So that was awesome. But it was a drunk, creepy, random Canadian guy, so I didn’t give it much thought. FYI, just because someone (like me) is quiet and reserved doesn’t mean they think they’re better than you, or that they are unfriendly. If someone talks to me, I’m more than happy to talk to them. And I was last night! I made it a point to be more open and talkative, but apparently that didn’t even work… But I stood up for myself, and I realized that I am happy with myself, quietness and all. I had a bit of a breakdown (on New Years Eve actually) about this very subject. I get told all the time how quiet I am. I get told that I should talk more. People want to know why, like I do it on purpose, or that I’m hiding my true self. I realize being around someone who isn’t talkative can be uncomfortable and odd, but why should have have to change my personality for other peoples comfort?
I shouldn’t, and last night I realized this. I had a really good time, and that’s what really mattered. People should just realize there are different personalities in the world, and not all of them are loud and outgoing.
Just had to put that out there :)
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